Specifically, there are two incidents that come to mind.
- In my 20's I signed up with the Peace Corps. I'd received my assignment (South Yemen) and was getting ready to head out for my testing/training when I got the word my assignment had been cancelled. The choice here was that I did not follow up about an alternate assignment. Wonder where I'd be if I had?
- A couple of years after that I spent a week of vacation in Los Angeles interviewing for a couple of different types of jobs. I got as far as a second interview with one, but no further. No real choice there except that I stayed in the job I had at that time. Wonder where I'd be if I had gotten one of those jobs?
Look back at decisions made in your life (no matter how long or short that life may be). What put you where you are today? And remember that there was probably a guiding hand in those decisions that put you right where you are. And, that you're where you are now for a reason not yet known to you.